Age-Appropriate Chores: A Montessori Inspired Guide
12 to 18 Months
Children at this stage enjoy imitating adults and can begin practicing simple tasks with supervision.
Examples of chores:
Pouring water or milk using a small jug.
Wiping spills with a hand mitt or small cloth.
Taking a plate to the kitchen.
Fetching shoes, socks, or other small items.
Turning light switches on and off.
Helping put away toys.
18 Months to 3 Years
As coordination improves, children can take on more responsibilities while still needing guidance.
Examples of chores:
Preparing simple snacks (peeling bananas, spreading butter).
Washing fruits and vegetables.
Setting and clearing the table.
Loading/unloading the washing machine or dryer with assistance.
Watering plants.
Packing and carrying a bag or backpack.
Dusting or wiping surfaces.
Brushing teeth with assistance.
3 to 4 Years
This is a period of growing independence, where children can manage more complex tasks.
Examples of chores:
Baking with supervision (measuring and mixing).
Helping unpack groceries.
Folding small laundry items like socks and towels.
Making their bed by pulling up the duvet.
Assisting with cooking, such as peeling or scrubbing vegetables.
Feeding pets.
Sorting clothes by color for laundry.
5 to 6 Years
Children at this age can handle tasks with less supervision and begin taking pride in their accomplishments.
Examples of chores:
Making simple meals (sandwiches, salads).
Sweeping floors or vacuuming small areas.
Organizing toys or books on shelves.
Helping with recycling or sorting waste.
Taking out the trash.
Caring for pets, including brushing or feeding.
Cleaning mirrors or windows with a spray bottle and cloth.
7 to 9 Years
Children can now contribute meaningfully to household routines and take ownership of tasks.
Examples of chores:
Preparing more complex meals with guidance.
Doing laundry from start to finish (loading, folding, putting away).
Washing the car.
Helping with gardening or lawn care.
Packing their own school bag or lunch.
10 Years and Older
Preteens and teens are ready to take on responsibilities that mirror adult tasks, helping prepare them for independence.
Examples of chores:
Mowing the lawn.
Grocery shopping and meal planning.
Babysitting younger siblings.
Deep cleaning areas like bathrooms or kitchens.
Managing personal schedules and tasks.
Tips for Parents
Model the task first: Children learn best by observing you.
Use child-friendly tools: Provide appropriately sized items, such as small brooms or lightweight dishes.
Focus on effort over perfection: Praise their willingness to help rather than the outcome.
Build a routine: Consistent chores become habits that children feel proud of.
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